I just spent forever searching for a place to leave suggestions!
I had joined the Zubby comments and suggestions groups until I realized admin wasn't even a member!
Then figured there would be a topic for it in the forum or button on the nav bar...
So, my first suggestion:
Setting aside a visible link for a place to leave suggestions may cut down on your inbox, Randy, and may make it easier for us all to share and discuss improvements to the wonderful "baby" we're growing 
- I have been seeing slow load times too, mainly from my email when a message comes in and I click to view it. I haven't had too much trouble otherwise.
- What about a way to get an email notification when someone replies to a forum post we've been on, whether it's the main forum or a group forum? I haven't used the other features yet, so I don't know if it already has it, but an email notification for replies to our blogs, bulletins, etc. would probably be nice too.
This is the first social networking site I've joined and will probably be the only. I don't have much to compare to I guess, but Zubby has my vote-- 
Oh, one other thing...can someone explain these star things beneath our names?